transfer of misery
when you feel like talking to someone about something. when you feel like you need a listening ear.
is tt a selfish action? becos it feels like a transfer of misery. i know tt when i talk to someone, the someone will feel the pain that i feel. sometimes i say things tt are insensitive that might be cos of a fit of anger and even more often, pple will wanna help and when there's nothing tt can be done to ease things out, others feel miserable as well. so maybe keeping to myself is the best thing to do.talking things out does make me feel a little better. but shd i be selfish? is it worth tt tiny feeling better? worse still, i jus dun wanna be a listening ear, when i'm feeling like crap myself.
and knowing tt i'm selfish. makes me feel even more sick of myself.
posted by shi ting @ 12:03 AM
2 Comments:
Everyone needs a listening ear..everyone. Those who say they don't, just don't know it yet. And it's certainly not selfish to talk to someone abt the way u feel inside. U said it right..it's a listening ear - and you honestly aren't expecting anything "advisory" from anyone. If it was so easy to fix..u wouldnt be so desperate for a ear would u?
We need one another. We use one another. By being a friend to someone..we have unconsciously given our consent to being "used". Today i use u..tomorrow u may use me..i scratch ur back..u scratch my back..
:)
ting, if i may be that ear - I would most willingly want that. :)
hey andrew, thanks for popping by. I'm fine ok! trust me. :>
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